this was my first dildo, and i absolutely love it! i m a virgin so the first time using it was kind of painful, but that s to be expected, and after giving it another go i can wholeheartedly say that it is so, so amazing!! it s big enough to hit all the right places, while still being small enough for a beginner like me to handle. the suction cup works really well, so you won t have to worry about it falling off the wall or something, and the added texture of the veins is just *chef s kiss.* the color is super cute, and it s so realistic i get turned on just looking at it! it also shipped in very discreet packaging; i m a college student and have to pick up my packages at the university s mailroom, so i was very pleased that none of the mail staff would have been able to tell i d ordered a dildo lol. overall i really recommend this, it s basically perfect!!