So I figured I'd treat myself with a thrusting toy. It's quite intimidating when you turn it on for the first time, but it really works. Using it handheld is easier than I thought it would be, and I've really enjoyed it. I had never experience a penetrative orgasm, and now I KNOW! The vibration is great as well, especially for warming up. A few cons: I wish the insertable length was a bit longer, but obviously this is dependant on the individual. I appreciate that the entire piece is small enough to store discreetly. A major issue I have is that it doesn't default to the minimum length when turned off, and you can't fully extend it manually, so when cleaning you have to kind of time the button press to open the creases. After a few tries I've got the timing figured out but it's still annoying. It's also quite loud. But noise comes with the power, so it's worth it. Still a great purchase. We'll see how it holds up with regular use.