I have a LOT of dildos, many bigger than this, but this is one that I use daily. Not super hard but not too squishy, length and girth are perfect. I can slam it balls-deep, go super high speed, or squeeze and grind on it as I ride, for a wonderfully relaxing internal massage. I usually have to force myself to stop it's so good. Works great in a strap-on harness and makes a perfect companion to the 12 inch version. This is the dildo I think about all day - I wish it came with a storage bag, a cock this great deserves one. Do your hole(s) a favor, this is one of the best....