I havent used this product with another yet, but for solo-play, its wonderful. The shaft is nice and long and goes very deep, and still manages to hit all of the right spots. It fills you up very nicely. The shorter shaft is great to use as a handle, as well, making it a bit easier to control. The make is really nice; its very thick, a good weight to feel realistic, and it doesnt smell at all. This product is very easy to clean, as well. Rinsing with hot water and a mild soap works well.