I ordered this 4" dildo because, quite frankly, I'm a widow, and have not had sex in 6 years. Plus I'm 66 yrs old and well into menopause. So I thought that my vagina might have shrunk, and I know that it's very dry. For me, this dildo was just the right width and length. I lubricated, and it felt really good. I hope to stretch my vagina with it, and then "graduate to a 6" one. Then perhaps, I'll be ready to date again, and someday be ready to make love again. It arrived in a very short time with UPS...I like it's texture.